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ShadiMilan
India’s Marriage Intelligence Network

Marry someone you will still agree with in ten years.

Every matrimonial site can show you a thousand profiles. This one tells you where the two of you actually differ — before it becomes an assumption somebody has to live with.

Free to join. No password — your number and a code. You can look around first without an account at all.

  • Verified, and specific about it
  • No number exchanged to talk
  • Money requests held, not flagged
  • Family, with permissions you set
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Verified, and specific about it

We show what was actually checked. Nothing here claims “100% genuine”.

Family, with permissions you set

Parents can see and suggest. They cannot change your non-negotiables.

Money requests stopped before delivery

Held, not flagged afterwards. You never see the message.

A match, as it arrives

Every match explains itself

The dimensions you agree on, the ones you do not, and the one thing worth saying out loud before it becomes an argument. Never an unexplained percentage.

Compatibility 824 verified
Money and lifestyle
94
Communication
88
Where you would live
41
Family involvement
38

One thing you should discuss

You both rate family highly. You mean parents nearby; they mean parents in the house. Neither of you is wrong, and neither of you has said it out loud.

An illustration of the format, not a member. No photograph of a member appears before you have a reason to look at one.

How it works

Three steps, and none of them is scrolling photographs

The order matters. What you want comes before who is available, because a filter set after you have seen the options is a filter that has already been argued with.

  1. 01

    Say what you actually want

    Twelve dimensions of how you want to live, and five weights from dealbreaker to nice-to-have. A dealbreaker is never overridden, by us or by anybody in your family.

  2. 02

    See why each person fits

    Every match arrives with the dimensions you align on, the ones you differ on, how confident we are, and the one thing worth discussing. Never an unexplained percentage.

  3. 03

    Talk, with your family beside you

    Messages go through us, so no number is exchanged to have a conversation. When it gets serious, both families get a room of their own — after both have agreed to it.

Why this is different

Verified profiles and AI filters are table stakes

Every large platform has both. Neither tells you whether you will agree about where his parents live. That is the part we built.

The whole idea

Expectation gaps

You both said family matters most. One of you meant parents in the house; the other meant parents fifteen minutes away. A similarity score sees two 90s and reports agreement.

parents nearbyparents in the houseboth said 90

What we show instead

The gap, named — with three neutral questions to ask about it and the ways couples usually settle it. Detection on its own is trivia.

Explainable matches

Which dimensions align, which differ, and how confident we actually are. No unexplained percentage, and no ranking of people.

Second start, without stigma

Divorced, widowed, separated and annulled are neutral facts here, not a category people are filed under.

Family

Your parents belong in this, on your terms

In most Indian marriages the family is in the room anyway. Pretending otherwise is how a product ends up being used through somebody's father's phone.

  • · Invite them into a circle, with permissions you choose per person.
  • · They can view, shortlist and comment. They cannot edit your preferences.
  • · A dealbreaker you set is refused to anybody else, at the database level.
  • · Your private conversations are never visible to them. Not once, not ever.

And when it gets serious

Both families get a room of their own

Opened only after each family has agreed separately — neither side can consent for the other. Wedding, living arrangements, expectations. A dowry demand is held there and never reaches the other family.

Safety

Money is never discussed here

Matrimonial fraud almost always starts the same way: a story that feels urgent, then a request. We hold those messages before they reach you — not after.

  • · Messages go through us. You never have to give out your number.
  • · Financial requests are blocked pre-delivery, not flagged later.
  • · Verification shows what was checked. Nothing claims “100% genuine”.
  • · You can leave the social layer on or off without leaving the product.
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Financial safety alert

Never send money, share bank or UPI details, or invest because of an online matrimonial relationship.

This warning is un-dismissible for the first twenty messages of any conversation.

Not ready to register?

Start somewhere smaller

These work with no account and nothing saved. Most people arrive through one of them and register later, when there is something worth keeping.

Or begin properly, and see who is actually here.

Your number and a code. No password, no long form before you see anything, and nothing you have already answered is lost.